Stop worrying about what others say about you. Stop wondering if people don't like you or talk about you behind your back. Stop over-thinking! This is easier said then done, but killing people with kindness when things seem rough will help benefit you emotionally and mentally in the end.
You don't need to answer to anyone that makes you feel down or upset. Not every argument needs your response or attention. Most of the time people say things that they don't mean. Therefore, once someone starts saying hurtful things to me, I'm learning to not feed into it. You can't argue with ignorant people. You will never win. Remember the old saying, "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all." It is 110% true. If you hold back your comments and let situations play out by themselves, people usually will apologize for their nasty comments and for any negative things that was done. Patience is key. Unfortunately, not all circumstances are like this. When some people are upset and start saying mean things to you, it could be their inner truth finally coming out. This can be very hurtful if the person was someone that you trusted and thought cared for you. Like I've said in previous blogs, not everyone is who they say they are or will be up front real with you at first. You got to let it go and learn that some people don't have your best interest. Let them know that you appreciate their opinions and to have a nice day or just say nothing at all.
As I scroll across my timeline on all my social media accounts, majority of the time all I see is negativity and complaining. Surprisingly, mean comments and insulting jokes are the new trends now a days... Kindness is not a sign of weakness. Kindness shows that you have more strength to walk away from a situation then to add fuel to the fire. It will only build into more problems, if you don't just let whatever is trying to bug you go. It takes a lot more courage to be kind to others then some people think. Just take a few deep breathes, think quickly yet collectively, and make sure your next move doesn't cause no harm.
SHOUT OUT OF KIND ACTIONS:
I love watching this young man's videos on Instagram (@mr_hotspot). He literally lightens up my day. There is hope that someone went viral for just giving compliments and smiling. Celebrities are tagging along with him in his videos as well. Mr_HotSpot was clever enough to still keep the fun and laughter connected into his simple videos of positivity. By spreading kindness, he's helped people overcome insecurities. We need more of this kind of attitude instead of the rebellious negative attitude that everyone feeds off of. I kind of sound like a parent... but oh well.
Kindness is rare. Some people are kind to a certain point until they crack. I ask for you to never crack. Don't let anyone see you down. Keep your head up, stay focus, and keep doing the things that make you happy. Not everyone is going to agree with you and that's okay. Stay consistent in your kindness. Never leave a situation that you feel like you were wrong in. Apologize when need to be and when you may have hurt someone. Calm down your pride but don't ever forget who you are. Don't let anyone confuse you or manipulate you.
KILL THEM WITH KINDNESS.
Have a nice day and move on silently.